Interesting
list I read recently. I still see pieces of myself in this list. Do your see yourself in here? If you do perhaps you should be taking a ruthless moral inventory of yourself and being honest about who and what you really are.
How does one
know if they or another have a wicked heart and a diabolic soul? Well, not surprisingly, those heart and souls look a lot like a sociopath's and/or a narcissist's
1. They’re experts at creating chaos and contention or conflict. Once they do they will never acknowledge they are the source of it.
They twist
the facts, mislead, lie, avoid taking responsibility, deny reality, make up
stories, and withhold information. (Psalms 5:8; 10:7; 58:3; 109:2–5; 140:2;
Proverbs 6:13,14; 6:18,19; 12:13; 16:20; 16:27, 28; 30:14; Job 15:35; Jeremiah
18:18; Nehemiah 6:8; Micah 2:1; Matthew 12:34,35; Acts 6:11–13; 2 Peter 3:16)
2. They’re experts at misleading people
with sycophantic words and flattery to get what they want.
But if you
look at the fruit of their lives or the follow through of their words, you will
find no real evidence of godly growth or change. It’s all smoke and mirrors.
(Psalms 50:19; 52:2,3; 57:4; 59:7; 101:7; Proverbs 12:5; 26:23–26; 26:28; Job
20:12; Jeremiah 12:6; Matthew 26:59; Acts 6:11–13; Romans 16:17,18; 2
Corinthians 11:13,14; 2 Timothy 3:2–5; 3:13; Titus 1:10,16).
3. They’re control freaks. They bow at the
altar of self.
They reject
feedback, real accountability, and make up their own rules to live by. They use
Scripture to their own advantage but ignore and reject passages that might
require self-correction and repentance. (Romans 2:8; Psalms 10; 36:1–4;
50:16–22; 54:5,6; 73:6–9; Proverbs 21:24; Jude 1:8–16).
4. They use good people, often abusing grace.
They demand
mercy but give none themselves. They demand warmth, forgiveness, and intimacy
from those they have harmed with no empathy for the pain they have caused and
no real intention of making amends or working hard to rebuild broken trust.
(Proverbs 21:10; 1 Peter 2:16; Jude 1:4).
5. They have little or no conscience and/or
remorse.
They do not
struggle against sin or evil—they delight in it—all the while masquerading as
someone of noble character. (Proverbs 2:14–15; 10:23; 12:10; 21:27, 29; Isaiah
32:6; Romans 1:30; 2 Corinthians 11:13–15)
6. They believe their sinful actions should
have no painful consequence.
When they
say “I’m sorry,” they look to you as the pastor or Christian counselor to be
their advocate for amnesty with the person he or she has harmed. They believe
grace means they are immediately granted immunity from the relational fallout
of their serious sin. They believe forgiveness entitles them to full
reconciliation and will pressure you and their victim to comply.
7. They are expert imitators/mimics. They look and sound like Christians but are not.
Remember, Satan masquerades as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:13–15). He knows more true doctrine than you or I will ever know, but his heart is wicked. Why? Because although he knows the truth, he does not believe it or live it.
Thank you for this, I was trying to figure out a way to bring this up with some people and now I can blame it on you...
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This is very good
Glad I could take the blame for it. lol.
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