My last few posts have been about knowing when to do something and when not to. They are addressing limitations starting to overtake me as I inch closer to my latter days. I am learning to pace or selectively address problems. More and more I have found myself detached from what is going on in the news. Its is the same old same old. Nothing is changing. The turmoil and chaos increases daily. It’s too much for one soul to digest and not be corrupted by it. Its like radiation, I regulate my exposure time as an act of survival and longevity. We are told to be in the world but not of it. I have always tried to stay engaged with recent events so that there is at least that touchstone to relate to people with. We’re all affected by it one way or another and the destructive power is now amplified by electronics everywhere.
One needs to check out intermittently or they will burn out. As my sons like to say, “I need to check myself before I wreck myself.” A human mind wasn’t meant to be engaged like this constantly. TikTok, YouTube, Snapchat, X, Facebook, Instagram, Reddit, etc. The cacophony of visual and mental noise is maddening. The constant assault on the senses can morally break a mind. Moses knew this when he begged God to either lift his burden or kill him when the petulant Israelites constantly complained, and God struck them with fire.
Numbers 11:11-15 ~ Moses said to the Lord, “Why have you dealt ill with your servant? And why have I not found favor in your sight, that you lay the burden of all this people on me? Did I conceive all this people? Did I give them birth, that you should say to me, ‘Carry them in your bosom, as a nurse carries a nursing child,’ to the land that you swore to give their fathers? 13 Where am I to get meat to give to all this people? For they weep before me and say, ‘Give us meat, that we may eat.’ I am not able to carry all this people alone; the burden is too heavy for me. 15 If you will treat me like this, kill me at once, if I find favor in your sight, that I may not see my wretchedness.”
A similar scenario of Moses being overwhelmed was when he was judging the tribes of Israel day and night without reprieve.
Exodus 18:13-18The next day Moses took his seat to serve as judge for the people, and they stood around him from morning till evening. When his father-in-law saw all that Moses was doing for the people, he said, “What is this you are doing for the people? Why do you alone sit as judge, while all these people stand around you from morning till evening?” Moses answered him, “Because the people come to me to seek God’s will. Whenever they have a dispute, it is brought to me, and I decide between the parties and inform them of God’s decrees and instructions.”Moses’ father-in-law replied, “What you are doing is not good. You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone.
Jethro knew that Moses was heading towards burnout or a nervous breakdown. Moses is advised to step away. Back up and let others judge. Delegate some of the work and quiet his mind. Essentially, he needed to ‘turn off’ the chatter. Only the more difficult and troublesome issues were brought to Moses. Here we see that not every battle needs to be waged by one man. In other words, everything doesn’t need to be done by you. This is an onus no man should be responsible for nor are they capable of it. It literally is the adage; you need to pick and choose your battles. A man needs to know his limitations.
As I age, like Moses did this is becoming more obvious. I don’t have the time or the energy to do everything for everybody. I need to prioritize. I need to do a mental triage and go through the process of determining the most important people or things from amongst a large number that require attention. Many come to me for help for many things. As a friend and ffamily member and as a writer and theologian, I don’t just pick the low hanging fruit or moral issues when choose a task. I attempt to tackle the more cumbersome and troubling issues and break them down into digestible portions for people. I sit and spend the time doing the thinking or work that many don’t want to do or don’t have the ability to. I only address the lesser issues when I anticipate that will fester into unwieldy monsters.
This means that at a spiritual level I need discern what can be addressed by others while I defend or address the more complex and dangerous issues facing Christians or morality in general. Some of my tasks and writing are plain and straightforward while others are backbreaking. Part of this is my role as a New Testament prophetic voice. I need to know how to elucidate modern dilemmas in Biblical language, metaphor and similes that people can understand. Its what I was made to do. To be able to do my God-given task effectively I need to know what is demonic and distraction pulling me from the most pressing problems. These are tactics often used in battle, divide and conquer and overwhelming force. Division and Mental Blitzkrieg.
The passages from Exodus and Numbers have a lot to tell us about how to handle modern multiplicity of task, overstimulation (over-stimming) and the assault on our minds.
Firstly, dealing with every single detail of a circumstance, some of which are insignificant distracts from the primary or overarching tasks that need attention. The essentials get lost in the minutia. You foolishly sacrifice energy and time sorely needed elsewhere. You lose the forest within the trees getting ensnared in the vines and tangled undergrowth.
Secondly, it underutilizes God’s other resources. Farms are not run by one farmhand. There are many hands applied when planting or harvesting a field. Not every task needs to be done by me, there are others just as capable or completing work. Besides, in the counsel of many there is wisdom. Time is valuable and is not unlimited in this life. It needs to be used judiciously.
Lastly, good leaders of men educate people to do the same work. Modern business calls it cross training. The adage of the fishermen is apropos here. Give a man a fish he eats for a day, teach a man to fish he eats for a lifetime and then can teach others the same skill. Instead of one fisherman and nine hungry men, you have ten fishermen that can feed a hundred people. A better use of time is to teach those you intend to delegate work to. In this way the burdens you carry both physical and mental become public or communal. It is easier for ten men to carry a boulder than it is for one man to strain and injure his back. By giving tasks to other people, you make them become responsible contributors. Therefore, they have ownership in successes and shared responsibilities for failure which tends to prevent blame shifting.
As for the other distractions like electronics…turn them off. Put your phone down. Put your tablet down. Shut the lids of your computers and Chrome books. Go outside. Take a walk. Ride a bike. Go out and do neighborly things like talk to your neighbor. Engage with people face to face. If you’re around too many people too often, find a reprieve or refuge. Make a place to go. For me, it’s on a mountain bike trail, in my home gym or in my study reading or writing.
You need the time to decompress. Things held under stresses, tension or under pressure eventually fail…often catastrophically. Remember, the things in your head don’t need to be that cluttered or confusing. If they are its because you are either letting too much in or someone or something has infiltrated.
Finally, a note from Paul in the New Testament showing us exactly what is at hand when the world assaults our minds which it does routinely and effectively. The strongholds mentioned are bad or demonic ideas that have infiltrated and taken up residence in our heads, hence the words arguments, pretension and thoughts. We need to allow God in to keep the overwhelming evil of the world out. All of your battles mental and physical
2 Corinthians 10:3-5 ~ For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.